Michael Fahey has a knack for being in the right
place at the right time.
Like the early morning he decided to walk his dog Geo near the Wilson
Farms on Parkside Avenue, and a teen ran into him with a cash drawer.
Fahey yelled, and a nearby patrol car was alerted. A second teen was
found hiding under a car in a nearby Woodward Avenue garage, after the
foiled convenience-store holdup, with a gun still in his hand.
Fahey also was right on the night shift scene when it came to
counseling his fellow police officers, as a confidential peer counselor
with the department.
"Policemen see a lot of stuff, and it gets to some guys, who have
anxiety and depression. They want to talk to someone who's been
there," he says.
And now he's willing to be called in the middle of night as a volunteer
cancer coach for the recently diagnosed.
Not that it will be easy for Fahey to take those 2 a.m. calls.
The 45-year-old retired police officer has also faced down cancer. He
was diagnosed three years ago with advanced-stage testicular cancer that
had spread to his lymph nodes.
Yet he says: "I believe I'm the luckiest person in the
world."
Fahey, named one of this year's Roswell Park Cancer Institute Stars of
Hope, looks forward to his new counseling beat.
"It's more than a coincidence that I retired young and now have
this opportunity. It involves a lot of listening. I remember what it was
like," he says.
"My doctor told me I had a remarkable recovery. I always felt I
was never just a patient, but a member of my health care team. I have
responsibilities in my recovery by following my doctor's advice, learning
as much as I can about this type of cancer and maintaining a great
attitude."
Fahey underwent surgery and chemotherapy - during which he managed to
paint his Grand Island home three different colors, tan, yellow and police
officer-blue.
With reaffirmed faith, he says he doesn't "sweat the small
stuff."
"I'm much more relaxed about life's ups and downs," he said.
"I look on every day as a new adventure, because you never know how
long you've got."
"Make peace with yourself and show love to everyone you know and
meet. And remember, there's always hope. New discoveries are being made
every day. The power of your mind combined with modern medicine can make a
difference."